I believe in love. I believe that you can love one person. In a monogamous way. I think you can meet one person, fall in love and love them for the rest of your life.
I’m quite inspired by romantic comedies. Like The Proposal. And I mean romantic comediesspecifically make me believe in love because they make fun of how things aren’t perfect; how a lot of the time they’re going to be really crap and it’s going to be really hard work. Whereas romantic films tend to make out that everything’s going to be perfect. You don’t even have to work on it; love is enough.
Personal history for me has often suggested that it can’t come true; that it’s not possible. But that just makes me want to fight harder. Because I think when it doesn’t work out it’s often from lack of trying.
I think it’s really important to learn to be happy on your own. Before you can be happy with someone else. If I can be happy in myself, then I can better help other people.
Sometimes I think I should give up. Instead of trying. When it comes to loving someone it gets difficult. But that’s a self-destructive thing. I find it difficult to rationalise some situations in relationships. That’s when I think it’d be easier to be on your own. I did make myself very happy on my own.